Thursday, May 29, 2008

a day in the life


Note: this post is insanely long. It is inspired by my sister Lara, who wanted to answer the question she always got from people who didn't quite understand the stay at home mom thing: What do you DO all day? Here goes...

6:02. Dylan wakes up (still thankfully on New Mexico time) and Jason goes in, convinces her to lay down for another 30 minutes so we can all sleep.

6:32. Dylan can't wait to play any longer. With daddy's permission, she gets up and plays quietly on the floor reading books and drawing with her magna-doodle.

6:58. Daddy gets up to get ready for work. Dylan comes in to wake up mommy and Noah. She brings every book (around 25), stuffed animal and the magna-doodle that she was playing with onto our bed.

7:06. I get up to make coffee - I can barely keep my eyelids open...this must happen now. Noah comes with me and Dylan stays on our bed reading for awhile.

7:25. Dylan comes out and decides she wants pancakes for breakfast. Why not? So, she comes up on the counter and helps me mix up some batter. (i'm trying to be more spontaneous)

8:03. Pancakes are done. Pancake picnic in the kitchen!! (this picture is what started this post)

8:10. Noah takes his straw out of his milk cup for the 5th time, dripping it all over the floor. OK. All done.

8:12. Noah and Dylan are blissfully playing in the family room by themselves. Right next to each other. Not bothering each other!! Quick, get a picture! I take a few moments to check my email.

8:17. Dylan asks, "Do I have a Pull-up on?" Me: Yes. "Then I'm going to poop in my Pull-up." Me: Why don't we go poop in the potty? Dylan: "No, I'll just poop in my Pull-up." (we have only been potty-trained for about a week now, so we got the peeing down pat, but mister poop is still iffy)

8:32. Diaper changes for both. Dylan gets on underpants. Noah escapes and runs NAKED BABY around the room playing ball.

8:40. Noah sits in front of the kitchen wall and throws the ball against it and back to himself repeatedly. I remember some stories about Jason doing this sort of thing with balls when he was little. Let the obsession with sports begin. I take this opportunity to empty the dishwasher.

9:15. I catch a quick shower (phew). Dylan reads to Noah on our bed, showing him the pictures so sweetly. Noah "listens" in crib.

9:30. Dylan and Noah want to play legos. No, trains. No, legos. No, trains. Noah: Help mommy!

9:39. We did it! Finished track. Dylan creates a track jam with her foot. Noah is not amused.
10:01. Yogurt snack!

10:19. Our friends arrive (Calvin is on the right - I babysit for him two mornings a week. Megan with Ruby and Iain on left)! Train fun for all.

10:24. Noah and Ruby love. They are literally hugging every 5 seconds for awhile. It's overwhelmingly adorable.

10:50. Bike time! Noah got this great little bike as a hand-me-down from our friends the Steelbergs at church. Thanks Cameron and Graham! He loves it.

11:03. Dylan and Calvin build castles in the playroom. Dylan tries to verbally keep Noah from knocking them down. (look at Noah eyeing Calvin's tower)

11:04. Noah tries to knock them down, but he gets diverted by dumping out all the kitchen stuff and then tossing it one by one back into the box.

11:41. Lunch time. Vegetable appetizers while the pasta cooks. Dylan eats the carrots but skips the broccoli and snow peas.

12:12. Ruby and Noah are still eating lunch. Ruby keeps taking bites from Noah's pasta bowl. Noah keeps eating the noodles with his fingers. There might not be anything messier for two one year olds than a bowl of slippery noodles with red sauce. This picture is just after Ruby stole Noah's carrot from his tray and now she's trying to feed it to herself whole on the fork. Noah looks to be in a trance and hasn't noticed...or cared.

12:45. Clean up time! We set the timer for 4 minutes and all run around the house like crazy while we put every toy in sight away. The kids do awesome and even Noah and Ruby try and "help." Cleaning up is always easier with a timer to beat!

1:00. Downtime. Megan, Ruby and Iain have gone home, so Calvin, Dylan, Noah and I sit on the couch to read for awhile before Calvin's mom comes to pick him up. Noah falls asleep nursing. I successfully transfer him to the crib (after some crying, falls back asleep).

1:35. Dylan and I read stories together in her bed. Today it's "Not THAT Bear," "Happy Father's Day" and "Pig Pig Rides Again." It's a rare treat to get to do this just the two of us since Noah is asleep. After a cuddle, an animal and a stack of books, it's time for quiet time.

2:04. Seriously, whoa. I have a few minutes to myself. This is divine and I can now catch up on writing this long entry (while watching a few minutes of tivoed So You Think You Can Dance).

3:05. Just finished writing and uploading pics. Noah woke up 30 minutes ago and is now sleeping on my lap as I type on the laptop.

Jason will be home soon so I can run to the doctor. So, I'll sign off for now and stop carrying my camera around. Hopefully now you get a better picture of how full a day can be - even when you are a "homemaker." :)

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

loved it! i've been waiting patiently. :-) i have actually been thinking of doing it again soon at our house. thanks for sharing your day. the pictures were great!

Sara on 9:28 PM said...

This just may be the best post ever! I loved it! When I got to lunchtime I thought - seriously, that was all in the morning? It is so real and that's what makes it so great. You are a brave mama for pancake picnics. Is this part of the "letting go" we talked about before?

Anonymous said...

Aaahhhh! I'm looking at my future! :) Your kiddos are so much fun and your days are obviously very busy (as are any stay-at-home mom's!) Love the pull-up quote!
Thanks for the great post, Hil.